My husband & I have lots of friends who have recently or are about to get married. One of our friends is getting married soon and has already been unfaithful to his future wife several times. He has actually had sex with another woman at least once, but he is unfaithful in other ways. My husband and I have been out to bars with him and he grinds up against other girls and has even tried to take some of them home with him right in front of us. My husband says this guy is always talking to or grinding with girls when they go out alone. This guys bachelor party was the other night and they all went to the strip club (my husband included). All the other guys just sat around and watched the dancers, but this guy paid for a "VIP" lap dance in the back room of this place. This is just the stuff I know about...I just think his behavoir is inappropriate and that he is sleazy.
Do you think that if a faithful person hangs out with someone who acts this way, that they are more likely to eventually be "influenced" to act this way because they begin to think it's ok? What if you're out drinking and your judgement is altered? I would never tell my husband he can't be friends with someone, but I'm not sure how I feel about my husband going out with this guy. I just want to protect my marriage...what do yall think on this issue? Can an unfaithful friend be a bad influence?