I know it's been a while since I posted. I wanted to thank you all for your support and advice. H & I have made great strides over the past couple of months in and out of the bedroom. As you can see (points down to siggy) we will be going on vacation tomorrow for a week. This will be our first vacation completely alone. We have always travelled with friends or family, so this is a much needed time away from it all.
I've known marriage is not easy. You both truly need to love and care for one another to work through those bumps in the road. I know that having gone through what we have H & I will be fine for the long haul. We want this and will work ourselves to the bone to keep it.