I wanted to know if anyone's husband experiences premature ejaculation? I'm not even sure if that's what it's called. Maybe 3/5 times that we have sex, I don't have an orgasm because he has his first. It can be anywhere from a minute to two or three minutes into it. Sometimes, even after the first 10 seconds, he will say "Wait, stop.." and pull out and try to stop himself from going. Every time we have sex, it's always interrupted by "Wait, stop.. hold on.." and then we wait for a minute or two, try again for another minute or two, and then wait for another minute or two while he tries to keep himself from going. I find myself just trying to focus on having an orgasm as fast as possible whenever we have sex, feeling like I have to beat him to it. Whenever I don't have an orgasm, he always apologizes and feels really bad. I tell him it's ok and that it's not his fault and he can't help it, that we'll just try again later. We talk about it together, and still have sex as much as we want to - but it is a problem, and so far, we don't know what to do about it.
He started researching some stuff on it online, and we found that premature ejaculation can lead to infertility. We haven't started having kids yet, and probably won't start trying for another 1-3 years, so I'm worried now that this might be a problem that may affect having kids in the future.
Would really appreciate some ideas from others who have gone through his problem. Thanks!