My wife and I have been together for about 6 years, married for one. We have sex 2 or 3 times a week and though it's good and we're both satisfied (ok, at least I think we're both satisfied..), it can get pretty boring. Same times, same moves, same positions, etc.. I know maintenance sex is part of any good relationship, however I'd like to spice things up a bit.
I have asked her to wear lingerie, which she has plenty of, and that's usually met with some comment about how she dislikes her body or a simple "I don't know." I love the way she looks when she puts on something sexy and I have told her this!
I'd like to try and do it other places, even outside of the house, but I feel odd saying "Let's meet in the big unisex bathroom at the mall to have sex..", etc..
I'll do anything she wants as long as I know what it is that she wants to do, however it seems like we're just in this rut of the same thing time and time agian. I'm up for anything to make it different and new. Advice?