So after the realization that I was probably a little over protective of the situation I let it be from there.. MIL didn't take them down, she's going to have to deal with the artist, not my problem.
Well yesterday MIL's sister messaged me asking why MIL shouldn't post the pictures (she felt I was purposely trying to "leave her in the dark" since she didn't go to the wedding), gave her the same blanket response and sent her a link to the album that were watermarked, along with a link to the pics my mom took.. trying to be nice.. my mistake.
I come home from work this morning to find out MIL sent DH the "correspondence" between us and between her sister and I, but after I looked at it it was obvious she had edited everything I said to fit her agenda. DH was upset, and really I can't blame him. If he had talked to either of my parents or my other relatives the way she made it look I did to her, I'd be upset too.. the only problem is I DIDN'T WRITE THAT!
Normally I'm completely on the bandwagon of, spouses backing eachother up 100%, but I'm also trying to look at this as if the tables were turned. It would be really hard for me to stomach the idea that my mother purposely rewrote an e-mail from DH just to start trouble.. so I can see how this is hard for him too.
Ugh, I'm really beginning to hate this woman!