My brother broke up with his girlfriend a week ago. IMHO, it was nice to see the end of a very slow, painful to watch, passive agressive demise.
Since that time, she has e-mailed my sisters and I countless numbers of time, and my little sister finally broke down and had coffee with her. The subject? "I want to come to mothers day at your family's."
Are you f-ing kidding me? You want to drive the 2.5 hours, stay at my parents house for the weekend, corner every person there for advice, and make another family event all about you? I understand the need for closure, and I understand that she is very hurt, but this strikes me as seriously manipulative.
I hope my brother is wise enough to reccommend she spend the day with her own mom.