I need some advise.
My husband and I have only been married for a little over a month and we have already run into a HUGE problem with our marriage and i am scared to say the least. Sorry if this is a little TMI
Before we got married we really didn't have sex alot b/c he has very strong Cathloic values and felt guilty about sex out of marriage. So those times that we have sex it was more just to the point get it done than anything. Plus he is not a very emotional man and has a hard time sharing his feelings. So I kept telling myself that after the wedding and we were married that sex would be different and that he would be able to open up and that hasn't happened yet.
Well we had a big fight about it and he basically told me that he sometimes wonder's if he married me for the right reasons. He knew that he didn't want to loose me and that getting married would make me happy. He said that yes he loves me but he isn't sure that he loves me the way that i need to be loved and that he wonder's if in the future it will drive a wedge between us and our marriage will fall apart and it will be all his fault, b/c he can't show his feelings.
I want to help him but i just don't know how.