September 2009 Weddings
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Poll: How many people have you...

"gone to the park" with?  (On a radio morning show here, they say "going to the park" instead of "having sex" in case children are listening.) :)

Also, questions to ponder:
Do you wish your number was smaller? Guessing many of us would say yes.
Do you wish your H had been your first? Seems like a lot of us do.
Does your H know your number?[Poll]
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Re: Poll: How many people have you...

  • DED at the porn star!!

    I won't say my # because it makes me have whore flashbacks. H doesn't know my exact number, but he has a general idea. 

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  • 11 votes and only two responses.  You guys are sneaky. :)

    Rach, I'll say it again, totally wish I could say the same, I think that's awesome.

    Michelle, you said you couldn't get clicky polls to work either, so try this. I spent 20 minutes trying to figure it out last night before I went out.  You have to type something in the regular message box tab as well as in the "poll"  tab.  Who knew?  And you weren't ever a whore unless someone paid you. :)  (That was a common motto back in college...)

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  • I've been with 2 guys, H included. I've only had 2 boyfriends and was too paranoid to sleep around. I'm in the camp where I really wish H would have been my only. I mean, it was special with him & I really benefited from having my own experiences, don't get me wrong, but I've been to confession twice about feeling guilty for sleeping with my ex...I thought I loved him and I didn't and now I don't think he should have had the pleasure of me.

    And H knows my number and I know his. I'm his #5 (which is really funny b/c that's his favorite number!). 

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  • I am okay with my number. Compared to several close friends from college, I'm pretty low!

    H knows my number and is okay with it. I know his too Smile

  • H knows my number (It's only 2).  I only had one other long-term boyfriend, and he's the only other one i was with.  I mean, i knew we weren't ever going to get married - and i kinda only did it with him because "everyone was doing it" at the time.  It doesn't make me a bad person, but i wish i would've saved it for H.  If i knew that H was in my future, i never even would dated anyone else - just waited patiently. 
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  • 2.  But we've been together since 2 months after I turned 18.  So the perspective is kind of skewed.

    I'm fine with my number.  When I want to tease H  I tell him I should have slept around a bit before meeting him.

    He has slept with 5 people. And didn't have sex until 6 months before we met.  I told him he was lucky he met me or he'd have AIDS by now.

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  • I'm just glad I'm not the only one who's a porn star...
  • I'm actually really surprised at how many votes are for 'only 1'!
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  • image michelle142:
    I'm actually really surprised at how many votes are for 'only 1'!

    Me too.  I'm almost a bit skeptical, but eh.

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  •  Do you wish your number was smaller? Of course, but the majority of partners was when I was 17-19 and not in the best state. Tongue Tied

     . Do you wish your H had been your first?  Nah I'm 30 and have way to high a sex drive to have waited for him to come along heehee

     

    . Does your H know your number? Yes and his is around the same.

    I made H wait a month before we slept togetherWink

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  • Wow... I wish you could go back and change your poll choice... I just realized that, in my drunken stupor when I answered this, I only counted the guys... ?_?

    ANYWAY!

    Do you wish your number was smaller?  Not really.  It was a phase... a phase that, although not the best choices, I don't regret.  It helped me become the person I am today... I was younger, I got it out of my system, and it helped me grow, and actually respect myself more, later on...

    Do you wish your H had been your first?  No.  I'm glad there were others in front of him so I by the time I got to him I what to do, and what not to do. Wink

    Does your H know your number?  He does, and he found out how many of them were simulatneously, and it wasn't pretty when he found out... but that was a long time ago, and we worked through it. 

  • image MrsMcC091909:

    Wow... I wish you could go back and change your poll coice... I just realized that, in my drunken stupor when I answered this, I only counted the guys... ?_?

    ANYWAY!

    LOL!  Love you! <3

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  • image dbucks:
    image MrsMcC091909:

    Wow... I wish you could go back and change your poll coice... I just realized that, in my drunken stupor when I answered this, I only counted the guys... ?_?

    ANYWAY!

    LOL!  Love you! <3

    ^____^;;

  • Hahaha.  Amelia, you crack me up.  (And MB too.) I wonder where the other porn star is hiding! :)

    And Mary...I lol'ed about your H.  It is a good thing you met him.

     I'm impressed with the well rounded results of this poll, but also surprised by the "Just one" answers too. While I don't consider my number high by any means, I do wish it was lower. I'm his second, so I used to wish I'd been with a few less guys so we'd be on par. At the same time, I don't know if I would've appreciated being intimate with H as much had it not been for the relationships before him.  I was convinced sex totally sucked until I met him! However, it'd still be nice to say he was the only one I'd ever been with.  Live and learn, I guess!

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  • Just realized I never answered the other questions!

     Do you wish your number was smaller? In a perfect world, I would have met H a lot earlier and it would have been. But, I have no regrets, because if I hadn't done the things I'd done and met the people I'd met, I would not have met Guy, thus would not be in the blissful state I am in now. However, there are a couple guys in there who were not key in the journey to finding my true love, thus, if I could eliminate them from the roster, I would. But, you live and learn.

    Do you wish your H had been your first? Again, in a perfect world I would have met him earlier, and he would have been. I do wish that the person who was my first had not been. He was a terrible mistake. However, while Guy may not have been my first, he will almost certainly be my last, and that counts for something as well, I think.

    Does your H know your number? He does, and it's never been an issue. Sometimes he teases me about having more "experience," but that's just Guy's personality. He doesn't really care, he just likes to mess with me. He's had his fair share of women, so it's not like I was this huge slut and he was an innocent virgin or anything. We both have had our share of experiences.

  • image tarmar81:

    "gone to the park" with?  (On a radio morning show here, they say "going to the park" instead of "having sex" in case children are listening.) :)

    Also, questions to ponder:
    Do you wish your number was smaller? Guessing many of us would say yes.
    Do you wish your H had been your first? Seems like a lot of us do.
    Does your H know your number?

     Haha, where do you live that they don't say S-E-X on the radio?!

    Anyway, I said three and am generally happy with that number.  I think it's good to have some experience and perspective on sex because it's probably natural to wonder what it's like with other people before committing to monogamy for 60+ years.  I'm glad my husband and I were not virgins when we got married. And yes he knows my number and I don't think it's anything to be ashamed about ...

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  • H is my one and only. We met when we were 16, and for the longest time, we were going to wait till we got married... then i said at least we'll wait till we got engaged.... well, i didn't make it to that either....
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