I get a phone call from T's older sister yesterday afternoon, I answer excitedly and there is no response...I keep saying her name, nothing. Finally I hear her SOBBING on the other end. I ask her what's wrong. Get a little teary eyed myself just KNOWING she is crying and I'm not there with her.
She then says how badly she needs to talk to T. So luckily I had JUST ended my conversation with him on skype, so I quickly call him back and he answers. He gets permission from his flight chief (he was headed to work) to call her.
Anyway, in short. My SIL was at a party and got drunk (she had not had a drink in over 15 years-since HS) and two of her guy friends took her into a bedroom and kept trying to have sex with her. She kept saying NO, they were also trying to get her friend as well, but her friend escaped and left my SIL THERE ALONE. Anyway, SIL is still unsure if these guys did indeed rape her or just messed around. She went and got tested and is waiting for the results. She's working with the police and trying to get him to confess or at least admit to it.
I am asking each of you to PLEASE keep her in your prayers, she is suffering so much right now and she is trying to call this guy for the second time with a tapped in phone call to get him to admit. He is not answering his phone as of yet and she's pretty stressed out.
I know that the power of prayer is so incredible that this is why I come to you guys. Y'all are so supportive and I know you'll prayer for her.
As for this guy, I wish I could throat punch him, knee him in the balls and what not. He is a d**che and doesn't deserve to let this slide by.
Also, I have a few questions. Maybe OJO knows this best. But, she is a bit concerned about continuing with pressing charges etc, due to many reasons. But what are maybe some things I can tell her to do? She's worried about going into court and being attacked by the defense. I told her if she doesn't do this, that he could go out and hurt other girls too.
I don't know. I just want her to be ok.
ETA: PLEASE any FB friends, do NOT mention this on my profile. PLEASE! Or anything related to it! Thank you!