Spin off of confessions below.
I hate my sex drive mostly because it totally revolves around my stress level and sleep schedule. Yes I enjoy sex, but sometimes when I'm working 80 hours a week, I enjoy sleep so much more.
That being said, I'm also on SSRI's for a history of eating disorder and I wouldn't be surprised if some depression as well. I've tried weaning myself off by tapering the dose and all, but I become an irritable b!tch who eats compulsively and is not pleasant to be around. Yeah, um, I don't want that. I have been on SSRI's for most of my relationship with DH, so I really don't know how big of a difference being off would have, but I really would like to know. Perhaps after match day when we know where we'll be for the next three years I'll be less stressed and I can try tapering off again.
I'm also on birth control and have also been on that for as long as DH and I have been dating, so I wonder about that too. I've talked to my GYN about it and she suggested a pill with a little more testosterone, so I was on Junel for a while, didn't feel any different, now I'm on the ring since its more convenient for me.
On with the novel, I do notice when I work out and feel better about my body I feel better in the bedroom, so I like to keep that up to help my sex drive.
So, others with lower sex drives, or really any thoughts, ramble away.
ETA: SSRI's are serotonin selective reuptake inhibitior's...aka prozac, zoloft, etc.