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I sometimes wonder...

if I weren't married to the boss, would my DH treat his secretary in the same manner?

He gets stressed, then acts crabby and short with me.  I usually don't say anything about it because I usually understand.  But, I mentioned something today about giving me 10 seconds to do something and he said that I take things too personally. 

Um, well, I am a person and I do have feelings.  I never get all "wifey" at work, but wtf? 

We are having a big talk this weekend.  I can't stand being told that my feelings are wrong or too much.

Re: I sometimes wonder...

  • Its tough working with your s/o.  Working together is 50% of what broke my ex bf and I up. 

    I think that as long as you are open about when he's out of line, it will make things much easier in the long run. 

  • image MaineWifey:

    Its tough working with your s/o.  Working together is 50% of what broke my ex bf and I up. 

    I think that as long as you are open about when he's out of line, it will make things much easier in the long run. 

    I choose my battles very carefully, but he has been snapping at me all week.  I try to pick an appropriate time to mention his behavior and how it makes me feel, but he has been turning it back on me all week.  As if I am over reacting and PMSing.  He has the wrong week, btw.

  • I think that he's lacking in the lovin' department since he's been sick, and after this weekend, all will be better!
  • Awww, I'm sorry!  But I'm glad you're going to talk about it this weekend.  Maybe since you'll be at home and not in a work setting that it will be easier to talk about and resolve.

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  • PSU - we are definetly more productive talking at home.  : )
  • Honestly? I get kind of snippy with my assistant at times. I do mainly litigation; it's brutal work; it's high stress; and every now and again I bite her head clean off because her priorities at work are different than my priorities at work; we have different masters we serve kind of thing. She usually laughs and tells me to go fucck myself, whereupon I stew for half a day over how I don't have to take that kind of crap from someone I'm paying to work for ME goddammit and then I realize what an asss I've been and apologize, lamely, and give her a day off with pay.

     

    SO SINGS MY SOUL *WHAM!* MY SAVIOR GOD TO THEE *WHAM!* HOW GREAT THOU ART *WHAM!* HOW GREAT THOU ART *WHAM!*
  • I also bonus her when I win a big case. She works like a dog.

     

    SO SINGS MY SOUL *WHAM!* MY SAVIOR GOD TO THEE *WHAM!* HOW GREAT THOU ART *WHAM!* HOW GREAT THOU ART *WHAM!*
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