I recently got off BCP because it left me completely dry not to mention reduced my drive dramatically.
Before I got off the pills, DH started talking to me about me initiating sex more. I explained to him that because of BCP, I never felt like doing it and more often than not I didn't want him to touch me. After discussing it for a little bit, we decided to get off the pills. I've tried different types.
I've been off the pills for a couple months now and my drive is back and sex is good. But, now I feel like I'm the only one initiating it.
We've talked about having sex more often and both agree that that's what we want. However, it's not happening as often as I'd/we'd like and I feel like it'll only happen if I initiate it. Everything about sex is good once we are actually having it. We have sex about 2 - 3 times a month.
How do I approach him about him initiating more? Or do I just keep doing it and hope he eventually shakes off the fact that I didn't initiate at all during the months I was on the pill?