My parents are in their 80s. Mom has Alzeheimers. Both have mobility problems. Their house is a disaster & dad can't really take care of my mom alone but he won't accept help. I've begged. I've pleaded. I don't know what to do. When help shows up they won't let the person in the house.
I think about applying to have mom declared incompetent & making myself her guardian. Then if dad won't listen to reason I can have him charged with custodial interference. That's awfully drastic but I am at my wits end.