Last night was DH Birthdays party, I had got him a new mini laptop, but it was stll in the box all wraped up and sitting on a table with all the other gifts. To make a very long story short, Our two nephews wouldnt leave it alone and neither one of there parents would do anything about it, so i kept telling them to stop and leave it alone. Anyways my brothers wife looked at me and said they just needed to get down, which then sent his Sister, (mom of the boys) into a full blown drama mode...She started yelling and cussing at me infront of all of my family and our friends, which the DH didnt take very well. He told her she could stop or she could leave, which then made his parents mad. After about ten minutes of her playing the drama card, they finally left. His parents then pulled him to the side to yell at him like he was a 12yr old getting into trouble, infront of everyone. After about 20 minutes of them yelling at him they finally left. It soon came out that everyone in his family has some kinda issue with me, because i didnt spend enough time with them at his party last night. They told him he had to call and apologize to her before we could come over to their house for his twin sisters birthday party today. They were mad at him for kicking her out which he didnt he kick her out he gave her a choice to stop or leave and she left. His parents went on to call everyone else in the family today and tell them what happen so now everyone is mad at us. My question is how to deal with these people or what would you all do? We are so tired of drama and im so tired of his sisters doing this all the time. Do we keep away for a bit or just learn to deal with them? I told everyone this is our house and if they dont wanna treat us with respect, then they can leave, i tryed telling her she would understand if she knew what was in the box, but she didnt care. She still got mad, now everyone is so mad at us for her blow up. I really dont get it!