I was just married,June 13, and DH and I have been together for 6 years! Well In Sept. he went to the doctor and had all kinds of tests done, just because of his family history mostly! Well it turns out his cholesteral is sky high and he has an underactive thyroid. For at least the last year(maybe a bit longer) hes had trouble keeping it up When the test were done we asked the Dr if this could be the reason and he said it probably was. Hes been on meds ever since and its still the same! BUT, heres the aggrivating part for me, when Im not home he can watch porn and do what needs to done and all is good, but when we try to have sex it goes no where! Ive been very supportive and stood by him and tried to make it out as an "oh well we'll try later" but Its hard knowing that porn cam do it and I cant! Its been at least 2 1/2 months since weve had any kind of sex what so ever. I know its hard for him and its a big ego buster but what am I doing wrong that it wont last? Its driving me crazy to think hes not attracted to me in a sexual way anymore! I dont know what to do, Ive tried everything, movies, toys, BJ, cuddling, you name it I think Ive tried it!
Im sorry this is so long but any suggestions would be appreciated! Ill be back on after work so any questions you may have for me I can answer then. TIA and sorry if TMI