So after asking questions in the past about orgasms Ifinally experienced what you all where talking about . I am able to orgasm with da hubby but not all the time. When I feel the best or when I feel the best position for me to orgasm my hubby stops. He said if he continues he will come early and doesn't want to. So we will change positions and be at it for a lil while longer but although it feels good it's not great and I dont orgasm. So I got this lil magic bullet and I LOVE IT. Wow this lil thing has given me the best orgasms ever. This puppy curls your toes. lol.
Anyways we have used it at times when hubby wants to stop so that he wont come early and it drives me nuts. Anyways we don't use it( bullet) often when we are together , i will say since the past 3 months maybe 3 times. I have noticed that I want to pull my toy out more because i want to feel good and orgams and not left half done. He doesn't pull the toy out like he did when we first got it. I"m wondering if that he doesn't like the fact that I have some awesome orgasms with the toy more than I do with him.? I have asked and he says no but then the same night I asked him to bring out the bullet and he was so in the zone that he didn't. Or did he and maybe ignored me.
Bottom line is that I think about my toy while having sex all the time now and want to have those awesome orgasms. I"m also wondering if anybody else only orgasms with using toys than with their hubby.
Now another thing is that my hubby doesn't last long either and suprisingly he will last wayyyyyyyy longer when he has come home drunk. Go figure. I feel like telling him to get drunk all the time.! lol
My sex drive is like way up there and I can't enough of sex and his is not so up there like before, he is always tired and when we do do it its not long.
He once told me that he thinks too much about it and gets mad at himself for coming so soon. any suggestions on what he can do for that?
I want sex for longer than 15 minutes at least once in a while.
Sorry so long.