To make a long story short, my ex-BF and I split approx 3 years ago after I had found out that he was seeing his now fiance while we were still together. Three years go by with no problem except for the few months after we have broken up. I met a great guy that I am now engaged to and have a beautiful DD.
Now to the point...While at work last week the ex's fiance walks into my office at work to meet with my officemate. I think we were both shocked to see each other. He was my "first" and we ahd talked about getting married and she hates me obviously because I am the ex. All in all it was a very awkward situation.
Ever since that run in last week I keep thinking of dates we ahd had in the past and the sweet things he used to do. I find myself missing that instead of remembering how crappy he made me feel by cheating. I'm confused because my fiance and I have a good relationship, so why am I thinking about the ex? I'm pissed that after 3 years that thoughts of him would even come back.
How would you move forward. I need to realize that what happened is in the past, the ex did cheat, and stop thinking about the old days. Any advice is welcome even a swift kick to knock some sense into me.