Long story short, my sister's boyfriend (25 years old by the way) lives in my parents basement. He has for 4 years. He works off and on, he can't keep a steady job to save his life. He drives a $600 a month Cobalt (dumb***) and them can't afford to pay my parents the measly $100 a month rent that he is supposed to be giving them. My sister goes to hair school (she is 21) and swears by the time she gets a job and saves enough money they will move out.
Well I stopped fighting this battle with my parents. I used to get so mad about the fact that he was taking advantage of them, but I was getting more stressed then anyone so I just stopped fighting the battle. Until now! My parents were talking to my sister on Thursday about how it's time for him to find his own place, etc...etc... as they have many times. He always manages to weasel his way back in. Well during the conversation my mom stated feeling really ill and eventually suffered a major heart attack. (she was rushed to surgery and is in stable condition now)
I know it wasn't his or my sisters fault. But I am done and absolutly fed up! So today I called my sister and told him that by the time my mom gets home he needs to be GONE!!! My dad should have taken care of this but I am guessing he misplaced his balls somewhere and didn't do it. I will not lose my mother over the stress of him living there. She hates that he is there but doesn't want my sister to go so she just put up with him being there in the past!
I guess it was a little harsh to tell him he needed to leave and probably not my place but I won't lose my mom over stupid ***. Any advice you wanna give is much appreciated even if you wanna flame me. I just needed to vent, it's been rough!