So, we just closed on a house yesterday. We had been emailing the realtors/bank through my husband's email. He was fine with me opening and reading them since they were for both of our eyes. He even leaves his email open at home for me.
Anyways, I saw an email from one of his "mentors" from his previous job. I don't know why, but I clicked on it. Bad idea. His mentor was talking about how bad the economy was and how he would stay renting (what we are doing right now) for a few years before buying. An hour after we closed, my husband responds with "I would rather rent for a while but the wife is sick of the house. At least I got a good interest rate."
This REALLY hurt me. I thought we had decided this together?? Should I tell him I read his email, or try to keep it to myself?