Trouble in Paradise
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Husband and I have been together 12 years married 10. Lately we have been having huge arguments about household responsibilities and outside hobbies. Husband was gone 5 nights a week and I was always doing house stuff taking care of the kids and working full time. We have been trying to work things out been it has been hard. Last night we got in an argument and he told me that while we were engaged he was with someone else. He never told me because he was afraid I would have left him. I now feel so betrayed and if he would have told me our lives would be in total different directions and we wouldn't be in the state we are today because I would have left him. I already have so much anger and resentment toward him and I feel like this was the final straw. Part of me though believes he hasn't cheated in our marriage and that was over 10 years ago so maybe we should try to work it out. So conflicted I am not sure where to go from here.