Question for you. Lets assume everything I write below is the truth.
Over the course of a marriage, a woman starts to resent/fall out of love with her husband. She confides in a man at her job and over time, becomes emotionally attached. They cross over to a physical affair one night. She decides that she wants to try and work on fixing her marriage and her family. She tells the co-worker that they must not do that again but she wants to remain friends. She doesnt have sex with the co-worker again, but the two of them continue to see each other outside of work alone for a few minutes here and there, after work he walks her to her car, etc. They send each other e-mails about music and sometimes the woman lets her guard down and will say something like "I miss you terribly".
My question is simply this: Is she still having an affair if she continues to engage this co-worker like this?