Trouble in Paradise
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So I had a miscarriage last year.. I was only 6 weeks but it was still devastating. I also gained about 15 pounds so on top of all the hormonal stuff and grieving I had to deal with none of my clothes fitting.. for no reason.. there was no baby. so one night as me and hubby are getting ready to get intimate. ( even tho I was going through all this I only stopped having sex for two weeks when I was going through the m/c.. I was told not to do anything. other than that I was still into it somehow) well I said im so sad lately,, I don't even feel like going places. im losing interest in things. he says " what if you lose interest in sex?! " all concerned.it just felt to me like that is all he cared about.. How about that I am sad.. that we lost a baby.. that I am grieving. but what if you stop having sex.. I just thought this was insensitive. and it worried me. I mean what if I got sick or paralyzed .. what is importatnt to him. this is also coming from a guy that pouts if he goes more than 2 days without it.. he sometimes forces me into doing it when I am exhausted.. he will talk me into it somehow always. what do u think