Ok so this might be all in my head. I have a 14 year old cousin who I was very close to I know shes growing up, and going through a lot of changes. She started high school, and shes a very pretty young lady. We used to talk a lot about everything, and now it seems like she doesn't want to open up. We used to talk a lot, and we still do, but its only about sports it seems. I miss our closeness. She claims everything is fine, and nothing has changed. I just feel her getting slowly more and more distant. Any advice would be appreciated. Maybe this is all me? Maybe im having a hard time with the fact shes growing up.