When we met 10+ years ago, he was at a normal weight of about 175-185. A couple years ago he was diagnosed with VERY high cholesterol.He's never revealed his weight to me, but I'm guessing he was lingering around the 210-220 range. I think the cholesterol news scared him, so he started eating right and exercising. He lost some weight.
But over the past year, he's fallen off the wagon and he's definitely 210 lbs. or more by now. Eating Oreos, brownies, chips, candy, etc. And packing on pounds. It's not just about his weight, but his health overall. Along with high cholesterol comes risk for heart disease and diabetes. I'm not trying to be a widow in my early 30's!!!
I've tried to be proactive by buying him lots of fresh fruit and healthier snacks like peanuts and veggie chips. He doesn't want that stuff, or he'll have a little and let the rest spoil. His weakness is sweets/desserts.
For Christmas I even bought him a 6 week program with a personal trainer and dietician. It's been over a month and he still hasn't set the appointment.
I don't know what else to do. If I was the one packing on pounds, he'd definitely make a big deal about it.