I've been lurking on here for some time so I decided it was time to create a post! I don't have any close married/in a (intimate) relationship friends to discuss this with, so I'm looking for some advice. This may be a little TMI so you have been warned. My husband and I have been married for a little under two years but been together 5 years total. We've only been (had sex) with each other so maybe it's lack of experience (or really not knowing what to expect, you can only gather so much from reading). But our sexual intimacy has been subpar, for me at least. Yes, there have been times of great passion and it was good but I've never had that mind-blowing orgasm like I always hear about. His only idea of doing things differently changing to a different (one other) position. But I'm not even sure if it has to do with that or technique (on mine or his part). To top it all off his sex drive seriously took a dive off a cliff these past few months. He got really into video games and now it's a battle of me or the game and I hate it to be that way. I doubt he's cheating on me but a few months back there was an incident that happened that didn't appear to be true (Allegations didn't line up with facts). So now here we are. I've talked with him about it. I asked him was it because I was not attractive anymore. No. Was it because he was stressed. No. Did I do something. No. You get the picture. When I tried to be upfront and do something sexy, he shot me down (with flames). What's going on, because I seriously have no idea. Thanks!