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sex life.

My husband and I got married 6 months ago. When we first started having sex it was very regularly, almost every night. Like most relationships we started having less sex. Probably at least twice a week. We went through phases where he was never interested, and I wanted it ALL the time. He would turn me down and wonder why I was crying, feeling rejected. Now, it has been well over a month since we've had sex. I found that he's been looking at porn, and normally that wouldn't bother me. But it makes me feel like crap that he'd rather watch porn and do his thing than have sex with me. When I bring it up to him he gets all defensive. I just need a little advice, and hopefully some reassurance.

Re: sex life.

  • jenilafur said:
    My husband and I got married 6 months ago. When we first started having sex it was very regularly, almost every night.

    Were you sexually active with him before the wedding? the statement you just made: was this before you wed or strictly after you got married was this beginning to happen?

    If he wsas a dud in the bedroom before you were married, you needed to say goodbye...if, that is, sex is important to you.

    IF this is happening now, better talk to him!! and asap.

    Like most relationships we started having less sex. Probably at least twice a week. We went through phases where he was never interested, and I wanted sex ALL the time.

    That happens....but this is NOT so great:

    He would turn me down and wonder why I was crying, feeling rejected.

    Really? he "wondered"???? why in heck didn't he TALK to you and you and he come up with an agreement how often you'd have sex?

    Twice a week is great!

    Now, it has been well over a month since we've had sex. I found that he's been looking at porn, and normally that wouldn't bother me. But it makes me feel like crap that he'd rather watch porn and do his thing than have sex with me. When I bring it up to him he gets all defensive. I just need a little advice, and hopefully some reassurance.
    You need to talk to him. Communication is key!

    Sex twice a week or 3 times would be great: he can indeed meet those expectations!
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