My husband and I got married 6 months ago. When we first started having sex it was very regularly, almost every night. Like most relationships we started having less sex. Probably at least twice a week. We went through phases where he was never interested, and I wanted it ALL the time. He would turn me down and wonder why I was crying, feeling rejected. Now, it has been well over a month since we've had sex. I found that he's been looking at porn, and normally that wouldn't bother me. But it makes me feel like crap that he'd rather watch porn and do his thing than have sex with me. When I bring it up to him he gets all defensive. I just need a little advice, and hopefully some reassurance.