Okay. so here;s my situation. I am recovered from an eating disorder. I was 78 pounds at 25 years old to give you an idea. I have been a healthy weight for more than ten years but I still struggle with food and body image issues. I eat very healthy and pretty rigid. Now my husband was very overweight before i met him and when we first met. He was on type 2 meds. I helped him to make good food choices and to work out. He lost hundred pounds and came off meds. Since then he is very cautious of how he eats. He is nervous about getting sick again. So a lot of times at family parties we do not eat the food.. It is always unhealthy to be honest. His family will make comments to him like "dont you guys ever eat?" before we got married his mother said " are you even going to eat your own wedding cake? They are just extremely rude. THe weird part is that they know about my past eating disorder.
I told him he needs to tell them to stop. So one day he said to his mom why does it bother u so much how I eat> Arent you glad I am healthy. She said it is offensive to people. and she didnt want to get into it. I feel like they think I make him eat this way.. When that is so not true. Are they jealous he lost weight? What is their deal?