So I've got a problem and am not sure how to handle it. My DH and I recently moved to a different state, quite far away from our families. My parents are thrilled for us, MIL can't stop crying. Not only can she not stop crying, she's developed a pretty strong hatred of me. I "stole" her son away from her. My problem is this: I've helped her with setting up her Facebook, so I have all of her information stored in my computer. She's been acting pretty wretched to me lately, so I snooped. I know it was wrong, so please no lectures. And now I really wish I hadn't. I have no plans on calling her out for what I read, because it's my own fault I went looking for it. That being said-WOW. She hates me! She's telling family members that I'm forcing DH into fatherhood. I'm not, we've discussed it and want to start trying next year. She's telling them that I forced him into moving and he's miserable here. He's also not miserable; his job is pretty bad, but that's the only complaint he has. But that's not the worst. She is telling all of her family members that I'm a bitch, and she hopes he leaves me and comes home. And then after he comes back home to her she'll kick my ass. Um...what? I've done nothing wrong. All I've done is love her son with all of me. I guess my problem is that I don't know how to proceed from here. Obviously I went looking for validation that she has an issue with me, and boy did I find it. But how do I proceed from here knowing she feels that way? DH says she's just going through a hard time because she misses him. But to wish he'd leave me? That's a little much. Not to mention we're very happy together. It's not like he's miserable; so she's basically wishing unhappiness on her son just to satisfy her needs. I'm totally at a loss on how to proceed with her. Suggestions?