My son is 22 yrs old, he graduated high school with honors and got a full scholarship for law school but after the first semester decided to quit college. Then he said he wanted to become a graphic designer and so my DH and I paid for two years of school at the community college and he barely passed his classes, so we told him we would not be paying for anymore classes and that he should get a job. He got himself a part time job and spends his free time and money playing video games with his group of friends that are all gamers. He doesn't want to go to school or get a better job.
This past weekend, he went out of town to a video game tournament and called out sick from work, I told him he has until September to move out. I said he needs to learn responsibility and that the only way for him to learn it is if we cut the umbilical cord. Well he got really angry and said that we are a**holes and that I will regret asking him to leave and that when I do he won't even give me the time of day. My heart is broken because I didn't want to do this as he is my only son but I don't want him to continue being dependent on me. Was it the right move to ask him to move?