Hello everyone. I have been married to my husband for almost 3 years. He has this college friend that is very needy (for a guy). Everytime my husband's friend is in some type of transition, he always comes to my husband to come rescue him out of his misery. So my husband friend's had to move out of his apartment, because the complex was going to be torn down. Again, my husband comes to his rescue and he's living at our place. The friend said that he was going to be out later that week. Almost a month later, he is still at my house. He is so so nasty. Every 2 hours, he goes to the bathroom, clears this throat, hawks and spits and blows his nose. He claims that he is a good cook, but he really isn't. He almost burned our house down by blowing up an onion! My house smelled so horrible. I asked him myself when was his last day staying at my house. He goes on a tangent about how he is so sorry and how he messed up his money. Then, he assures me he would be out by Sunday (the day before Memorial Day). I told him that that was his last time staying there because I am getting uncomfortable with him being there. Then, my husband drops a bomb on me last night and tells me he was staying until Friday. I don't believe my husband or his friend. Since he has been here, my husband and I haven't been getting along. I just want my normal life back. I have tried making life harder for both my husband and his friend by going on "strike". I tried the mature thing and spoke to my husband and his friend about my concerns of him living with us. I have tried just ignoring it, but I am at my wits end. Please help!