Ok, I'm going to try to sum this up as much as I can. My husband I have been married for a year and a half now. Almost a year into our marriage, I found out that he had cheated on me with another woman. He slept with her twice. He said that was the only time he ever did anything and he would never do it again. I feel like our whole marriage is now based on a lie because he never told me about it before we got married. I feel that is only fair that I should have been told so I could decide if I wanted to work things out and be with him. Now we're married and I feel like we should work things out. It's been about 6 months since I found out about it and things are progressively going down hill. He sleeps on the couch now because he says my snoring is bothering him. We do not have sex at all because I have gained a lot of weight due to PCOS and a thyroid issue. It's partly me that doesn't feel comfortable getting intimate right now but he seems ok with it. And it's not like there aren't other things we could do but he just isnt interested. He is extremely lazy and lies around on the couch all weekend and never helps with any of the housework. He says that he cooks so I should clean. We have talked in the past about having children. We have two cats right now and I know that if you are pregnant you cannot breathe in the fumes from the litter box. He says that I will have to wear a protective mask because he cannot clean the litter box without wanting to puke. Same goes for changing diapers. I would be in charge. Before we got married, he had promised me that he would pursue his GED so he could get a better paying job. I have a college degree and making very good money with a reputable company. He know refuses to pursue his GED because he says he won't be able to pass anyway. I know marriage is not all about money, but there is no way that if something happened to me that he could support me and our future children. My parents both think I need to end this marriage. I do love and care about him though but I dont see that he is willing to change. Plus if he isn't getting sex from me, people have told me he is bound to go elsewhere eventually. I was also told by one of our mutual friends that he has always bummed around. He's never had his own place to live. He just got by living with different friends before me. I know I could go on and on but I dont want to make this too long. Is it worth trying to salvage this marriage? Whenever I ask myself that question I just dont know. I hate the thought of him ending up homeless or something. But then again he seems to have always found his way..