For the past year or so my husband has changed. Little background: I am the only one working. I work 3 12 hour shifts a week. He stays home with our child. He was his idea to quit his job when she was born. i am gone from work 6:30am-7:30-8pm.
Everyday I am at work I get texts from him complaining and critisizing me. This continues even when I get home. As soon as I step in our front door it starts. Things like "you left a sock on the bathroom floor" "where the F*** is her hairbrush" to why can;t you do anything right? Also most nights I come home at 8pm and he hasn't fed or bathe our child. Its her bedtime! So I have to scrabble to get her dinner made and give her a bath. Keep in mind I only work 3 days a week! He is also wanting me to pick up more hours. so when I do he complains that he has to do everything around the house.
I have brought this up that I feel he is belittling me and it hurts. He then turns it around about himself saying that is so rude and mean of me to say and will storm off. NOt sure where to go from here. I have suggested counceling but he says that is the step before divorce.