Ok...I am going to try and make this as short and sweet as I can. BF and I have been together for 7 years now. We started dating when I was only 19 years old. When we first starting dating, I had recently gotten out of a bad relationship where I was repeatedly cheated on and wasn't treated right at all (I was young and very nieve and pretty much just let him run all over me). So when I started dating BF, my parents didnt know about what my ex had done. I didn't tell them because the relationship was over and that was that. Well he was crazy and still continued to try to contact me up to a year after BF and I started dating. After he FINALLY got the clue to leave me the hell alone, he started in on my parents. My mother tried to talk to me and tell me that I needed to talk to him and just listen to his apology, even if we didnt reconcile (which I told her that people in hell had a better chance at icewater). So finally I told her what he had done...instead of her seeing what I saw in my ex it made her paranoid about my current BF and so his background was checked behind his back and mine. When my parents told me what they did I was LIVID. I said that they had no reason to do this to him, he had been nothing but good to me and they were treating him unfairly. They told me everything they found on the background check (which was nothing....just one thing he got in trouble for when he was 20 years old and he had already told me about when we started dating) I told them he had already told me this stuff because unlike my ex he was honest with me. So after only 3 months of dating my current BF my parents kicked me out of their house because they said I was "spending too much time with my bf"...at this point I was 20 years old with two full time jobs. He took me in no questions asked. Needless to say all of these things have put a strain on us. He doesn't really want to be around my family (and I can't say that I blame him). They still to this day haven't apologized to him for anything, they will not acknowledge that they kicked me out (my mom likes to say that I chose to leave..when I didn't). They pretty much pretend like it never happened, my mom talks about he and I getting married and having kids....especially since we have been together so long. He and I have discussed marriage and kids, so neither of us are against it but we aren't in a rush either. I am just fine with my life the way it is. The other stuff will happen when it happens. What the heck do I do with this situation? It still makes me SO ANGRY that they did those things to him and even more angry that they have yet to acknowledge or even apologize for what they did. I don't attend a lot of family functions because I want him to be able to come with me. He is the man I love and I feel like we should be able to attend these things together. I don't agree with what they did or how they treated him AT ALL, and everytime we dont attend a function I get the world's worst guilt trip....suggestions?