I plan to send the below letter certified mail, restricted delivery and maintain a copy of the letter and mail receipt for my records. I was told the police can do the same and I can pursue legal action if I am contacted again... I sent a similar letter last year (not certified) requesting all communication to stop and have since relocated and changed all my contact information yet, my mother persists in contacting me at my new home and place of employment. I am due with my first child in early June and am fearful of being contacted again as she said herself she "cannot control her emotions," and has proven to be quite unstable.
This CEASE AND DESIST ORDER is to inform you that your persistent actions including but not limited to sending unsolicited gifts, cards, mail, etc. to my home and place of employment have become intolerable. You are ORDERED TO STOP such activities immediately as they are being done in violation of the law. I have the right to remain free from these activities as they constitute harassment and stalking, and I will pursue legal remedies if these activities continue. This letter acts as your final warning to discontinue this unwanted conduct before I pursue legal actions. (at the bottome of the letter I will put "cc: file, police")
Do you think any other action is needed, or is this clear enough this time? Many thanks!<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />
Re: Cease and desist letter to mother
Yu are probably better off simply telling her, "Dear Mom: Kindly cease from contacting me, be it in person, electronically or via any other means. If you do, you will be legally liable thereforeafter."
Sign your name, date it and send it certified mail, signature required.
And if she contacts you after she gets the letter, make this a legal matter. HTH.