Ok before we start I would like to say that I am probably going to be very biased and come off as a total witch. I don't mean to be this way but there is so much malice now from all the stuff that has happened. I'm 21 I've been with my H for 3 and 1/2 years and married for little over a month. When I first met my H I knew nothing about his family even when we started going out I didn't meet them until one day at church when she walked up to me and introduced herself. She was very friendly up until about the time my H asked me to marry him. Then she felt the need to ask him to do every little chore around the house and asked him to visit alot more. You have to know my MIL she is not blunt but very sly in what she says so people can not read into the undertone of what she means. When we started planning the wedding I picked a caterer they did not like at all and it was his family's side that did not like them because of a fall out but It was cheap and people said they had good food. She kept telling me to get some other catering service and started getting really adamant about it. Please take note she was not paying for any of the wedding or reception. She only had the rehearsal dinner to do but I didn't really care about that. So it got to the point one day that we were at Mc Donald's with his family and my grandmother called because we might have changed the caterer possibly. I wanted to tell my H but I didnt until i thought everybody was talking and wouldn't hear well my MIL did and she got about a few inches away from my face and put me out of my comfortzone and told me about why I shouldnt pick the one caterer. I remember kicking my H under the table because I was so upset she was in my face. The rest of the time while we were there I was silent and mad so she decided to throw a waded up napkin at me and ask what was wrong. That was the breaking point for me when we got in the car to leave to go home I cried so hard. Finally my mom wrote a message to her on facebook telling her to contact them if she had a problem with the wedding. I know she does not like me at all its plain to see how she is with the other IL she has. Speed up to present day we have now been married for little over a month and she has decided to text and call my H and I continously through out the week. She was never like that until after the wedding. She then decides to send a picture to us saying " helll hath no fury like a mother whose call goes unanswered." thing is if she wouldn't call at the butt crack of dawn then we might pick up. My H is starting to get fed up with it to, but he is to much of a momma's boy to say anything. And I'm not one for conflict, so I just shut it and stew. my H doesn't understand why I do not want to stay long with his family anymore , but I don't know what to say other than I phsyically make myself sick because of how my MIL and My H's Sister's Husband is.
I need help trying to figure out a solution cause I'm starting to have issues again....
If you have any other questions about any other times let me know . I didn't want it to be a huge novel of stuff that's happened.