I am at my wits end. For reasons unknown, my Bf hates my mother. This has been going on since the 1st time they met, and he will not tell me what happened. He tells me he feels that she is "competitive" with him and combative, but honestly, I have been with them every time they are together and I am not seeing this!! I live in a different state than my mom, so the meetings are few and far between, but after this holiday filled with tension, her and I have decided that we all are not going to spend time together any longer, as she doesn't feel comfortable with him, since he is critical of everything she says, and he flys off the handle if she doesn't agree with him
This is hard, as all I want is to be able to have my mom and future husband spend time together but it is just not workable. How are we supposed to have a future with kids when he hates grandma so much?? Does anyone else have this? How do you deal? I feel so hurt and upset, not only for myself, but I feel horrible for my mom as she wants him to like her.