My Husbands family have no boundaries and they accept bad behavior with out flinching.
The father won't butt out of our search to buy a house. I have great family resources in my family seeing most of them have made livings buying and selling homes. However my FIL has none but insists on forcefully feeding us his opinions. My H is now so gun shy of house hunting we've had to stop looking. My FIL has also told us, what ever house we buy, he's renovating. He did this with his daughters house...he will show up and just knock down a tree or wall with out asking and caused massive problems. How should my H and I tell him to kindly back off?
The Sister is spoiled rotten and very unkind....but maybe she just has a really bitchy resting face? I don't know how to make a good relationship with my SIL. She is very spoiled. She has to get at least one more gift than my H on Christmas (she counts), she has to get a gift on my H birthday too, and really she pouts till she gets her way, she also has fits if she's not the center of attention, and she is in her early 30's. I really have tried to pick out her best qualities but i really can't find them and I feel awful. Her grandma has even said she's horrible and family friends say she has the personality of a dead slug. Should I just continue to ignore her behavior or should I try something else. I really would like to have a relationship with her but she acts like I'm road kill.