My husband and I were made responsible for raising his younger brother. During this process my mother in law has become an even bigger night mare, our debt load skyrocketed and I have to postpone my schooling, all for this child and the debt taking him on caused. I used to believe I wanted a family but since having this boy I fear I would regret having kids. I have become a person I don't like, I am depressed, angry, resentful, and generally miserable. We are the only option for this child and I will not ask my husband to give up on his brother but it's hurting me having him. I'm at a loss at what to do, and I fear I've lost who I am. How do I know if I really no longer want children, or if this is just a faze because of the current situation?