We've been married just over 4 months, and I'm almost 30. My hormones are changing and so my doctor switched me to a higher dose pill (Yaz to Necon--huge difference), which has made me gain weight and feel anxious. My husband and I want to try FAM and some sort of spermicide. We would like to start trying for a baby in about a year or so, so I don't want an IUD or anything hormonal. Any suggestions or feedback?