Ladies, I need some serious advice.
I've been married for 6 months now. It seems like every 3 weeks or so (not so often to cause major problems, but common enough for me to think there SHOULD be a serious problem...maybe I don't threaten enough?) Love Of My Life goes out with a coworker for a drink (which I have no problem with), and it turns into something (like right this very moment)...I don't hear from him for hours, his phone dies (he has a car charger), he says he'll be back at a certain time and it turns into 5 hours later, he drives home after 6 or 7 drinks in his WORK VAN...it's this constant cycle of me telling him "I"ve been through the DUI, you don't want one," and "I don't CARE what you're doing, so long as I get an update every once in a while," or "CALL ME I'll come pick you up, no matter what time of night."
It happened when we were dating, but not NEARLY as often as it is now. Is this just a newlywed thing or is something wrong? I don't know what else to do, since our "talks" never seem to get through to him. We communicate so well with each other usually, I don't understand why this isn't getting through his pea-brain!