I am hoping people who reply will read the top subject because I would like serious answers.
Some background: I've been with my husband for almost 7 years and have been married for almost 1. He is the love of my life and I really want to spend forever with him.
Since we got engaged his sex drive has belittled more and more... I have mentioned it to him numerous times and he says there isnt an issue ( I'm very honest and ask- is there another woman? is it me? is it my looks? can I do something else? )We have sex 1-2 every 2 weeks. I am a scorpio and have quite the sex drive... but still I think that is very unusual for people who are in love.
We own our own place and financially do pretty well for our age (25-28)- meaning our bills are paid without a lot of worry. Also, he has a very hard time growing up and that has always been an issue of mine with him. In the last few years he has juggled jobs, been unemployed, and doesn't have the drive to look for jobs. I have discussed with him numerous times- sad, angry, informative, serious, etc. However, he doesn't look for jobs and is content on what he makes. He has no outlook for our financial future and when you ask him what he wants to do, he has no idea. I've suggested things, helped him, made his resume, been really supportive and I'm starting to reach an end with both of these issues....
What are your suggestions? Please only reply seriously and don't yell or comment on my life unless its to help.
Thanks so much!