Thanks again to everyone that responded to my first post. But again have a question. So yesterday my husband gets a call from his sister asking him to be in her wedding. He was suprised and said" I didnt think you were asking me, its kind of last minute can I think about it and call you back?". She said its not last minute the wedding is in 2 months. Anyway about five minutes after they hung up she txtd him. She didnt even wait for him to call back. and she said" look I dont deserve to be treated like this. Just forget it, you obviously dont want to be in it."
We were still wondering if we are invited, what to do about the kids, and Im still not sure if they are having the shower late or had it without inviting me. What do you think of that.