My husband and I moved about 3.5 hours from "home" for our first jobs. The dilemma is that all of our family and friends are back "home" and are expecting us to move back; however, we have been in the new area for over a year and both love our jobs, the new church we are going to, and some new aquaitances. We are torn about leaving because we worry about finding other jobs just as great as our current ones. The payoff of being with family would not be worth the stress of being in a bad job. What are your thoughts?