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The state of my ute...

Is empty. BFN today on 14dpiui.

I'm really ok with it. Sure, it sucks and it isn't what I'd hoped. But with the holidays coming up and my due date coming up, I think it'll be good to concentrate on myself and H and spend time just truly taking care of ourselves.

H planned a vacation for January so we'll get out of town and enjoy the beach and the sun and the margaritas and each other.

H's count was pretty good last time, so we're going to just do TI for the next few months. It is way less stress. I'm actually going to stick with Femara just to ovulate so that we aren't completely throwing in the towel. But, we won't pour our souls in to this... we'll take it easy and plan on an IUI for my February cycle. I know that sounds like we're still pretty actively TTC, but really, it is just making our chances normal - like any other healthy couple who doesn't have issues. KWIM? If it happens, awesome, if not, we'll do the IUI in Feb.

So, that's what is up. And tonight I'll pour myself a big glass of red vino, cuddle up with my H and my dog, and maybe do some online Christmas shopping. I forget this sometimes, but life is good. I'm actually pretty lucky.
IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
FET - BFN
FET - BFN
Switched clinics
IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
Baby Boy born July 2015

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  • ((Hugs)) I'm sorry about the BFN and that it didn't work this time! Enjoy the wine! 
    Congrats to my TTC buddy Madeline! Cheering for all the strong 3T ladies! 

    TTC since March 2012; DX: PCOS 4/2013 
    BFP 7/6/2013; EDD 3/6/2014 
    Diagnosed with Pre-E: 2/15/201
    Emergency induction: 2/16/2014
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  • Hugs Vino. I can't imagine how hard this is for you. Enjoy the holidays and buy yourself something nice while you do your Christmas shopping!
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  • Ugh, I'm sorry for the BFN, but I'm glad you're at peace with your situation.  
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  • Aw I'm sorry. That sucks :( I hope y'all have a nice, restful Christmas and can get back into the swing of things with a renewed spirit at the beginning of the year! Enjoy your wine and your vacay in January :) Where are y'all going?? Anywhere exotic? Heck, any beach sounds great lol

    In Christ alone my hope is found. He is my LIGHT, my STRENGTH, and my SONG!


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    T-TTC since Dec 2008. PCOS/nonexistant cycles(anovulation) and endo. HSG in '10 revealed both tubes blocked. Lap surgery in Dec '10 to correct. Failed Clomid/IUI and injectable(Bravelle)/IUI cycles so far.  


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  • ((hugs)) I'm so sorry, Vino. I'm glad that you are at peace with things. Make sure that glass of wine tonight is extra large.
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  • I'm so sorry, dear. Enjoy the holidays and have a great vacation with your H. ((hugs))

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  • I'm sorry dear.  Enjoy your wine and upcoming vacation.
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  • I'm sorry, Vino. Enjoy your wine tonight and snuggling with your H.
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  • I'm so sorry, IRLV.  But I'm glad to see that you're at peace with it and that you have a great vacation planned for after the holidays.  Enjoy Christmas and your H. 
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  • I'm sorry about the BFN  ((hug)).  I hope it happens for you soon and that you're able to keep up your positive thinking.
  • Not the news everyone's been hoping for, but you're right ~ your life does seem pretty good right now! Enjoy your wine, shopping and planning for Christmas and vacation!
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  • I'm sorry. Some online shopping, wine, and cuddling sounds like the perfect day/night.

     

     

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  • Big ((HUGS)).  I'm glad you're at peace with it.  Enjoy your vacation!!!!

    *TTC since 10/11* 
    BFP: 9/30/12, EDD: 6/15/13
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  • (((hugs)))
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  • Don't forget to allow yourself to be a little sad for yourself!  Don't fake it.  You can and should be sad/upset. 

    Then tomorrow, back to that positive attitude. :)

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    Don't forget to allow yourself to be a little sad for yourself!  Don't fake it.  You can and should be sad/upset. 

    Then tomorrow, back to that positive attitude. :)
    I cried all day yesterday. I didn't need a pee stick to tell me, I knew. The pee stick was basically to prove it to H who was convinced that there was no way it didn't work.
    IUI - BFP! Baby boy born still - August 2012
    IVF - BFP - miscarriage June 2013
    FET - BFN
    FET - BFN
    Switched clinics
    IVF with PGD - three embryos created, all healthy - July 2014
    FET - transferred two embryos (boy and girl) - Nov 2014 - BFP!
    Baby Boy born July 2015

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    Don't forget to allow yourself to be a little sad for yourself!  Don't fake it.  You can and should be sad/upset. 

    Then tomorrow, back to that positive attitude. :)
    I cried all day yesterday. I didn't need a pee stick to tell me, I knew. The pee stick was basically to prove it to H who was convinced that there was no way it didn't work.

    Alright. Then you can carry on! Smile 

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  • ((hugs)) I'm sorry about the BFN, but it sounds like you and your H have a pretty good plan. Have fun on your vacation in January!
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    DX: Subclinical Hypothyroidism
    BFP #1: 11/21/2011. EDD: 8/4/2012. Missed M/C & D&C at 11w6d: 1/20/2012.
    BFP #2: 5/24/2012. EDD: 2/2/2013. Natural M/C at 6w0d: 6/9/2012.
    BFP #3: 12/6/2012. EDD: 8/19/2013. Missed M/C at 9w0d: 1/14/2013.
    BFP #4: 4/20/2013. EDD: 1/1/2014. Born at 36w3d: 12/7/2013
    BFP #5: 3/25/2015: EDD: 12/8/2015.
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  • Sorry about the BFN! Go enjoy your wine, the holidays, and your vacation! 
    ---Started TTC 12/1/11--- 
    Cycle 1 - 13 BFN
    Cycle 14 Surgery complete! 
    BFP 2/27/13.already 9 weeks!.missed m/c 3/27/13. Baby stopped growing at 10 w 5 d 
    DNC 3/28/13
    Cycle 15-17 BFN, Lets go 18!
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  • I'm sorry Hun 
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  • I am sorry about the BFN. I know how tough it can be to take a break. I think you are doing it the right way. It seems like both you and your H are comfortable with this route. As always, I am keeping you in my thoughts. If you need to talk, I'm here.
  • I'm sorry about the BFN ILRV. I hope you enjoy this holiday season with lots of wine and time with DH and puppy.

    Cheering on all of my 3T ladies!  DX with PCOS - 11/2012 DH S/A & HSG - Normal - Too many rounds of Clomid = BFNs - New RE 5/2014 - Repeat Testing - Losing 40lbs before injects/IUI



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  • ((hugs)) I'm sorry you didn't get the result you wanted. Enjoy your wine, DH and doggie cuddles, and your vacation. :)
  • You're amazing.  That is all.
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    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
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  • I'm sorry about the BFN. :( Enjoy the vino and cuddles!  

     

  • I'm sorry! Good luck with the relaxed cycles.
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  • Sorry hun. I hope you enjoy your wine and cuddling tonight. Careful with the amount of wine you drink before you start shopping though. ;) I know I would get myself in trouble that way!
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  • So sorry about your BFN :(  I hope you relax and enjoy each other on your vacation.  And you're totally right - Life is good.  I always like to be reminded of that every so often, so thank you for the reminder.
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  • Sorry about the BFN. 
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  • I'm sorry dear. Enjoy the holidays and thst vaca! ((hugs))
    **TTC bestie/auntie to ShanRich0810's LO Started TTC-1/2011; Lap, appendectomy & Dx'd w/endo-9/2/2011; 1/2012-Met with RE, lap & hysterscopy-1/23, severe endo excised & polyp removed, BFP#1-5/13/12, m-m/c confirmed 6/6/12, D&C 6/13/12, IUI#1-BFN, Endo back, bcp to shrink cysts, IVF-10/11-ER, 8R, & 7M, ICSI-100%, 10/16-5dt, 2 blasts, 10/25-BFP!!
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