We have a 5 year old cat (Aurora) , and in early October, we adopted a 4 month old kitten (Dobby) . We did the introductions slowly, and after a while, Aurora stopped hissing and moaning at Dobby. They ignored each other for the most part, unless Dobby surprised Aurora, and she would hiss and they would go their separate ways.
Over the past week, Dobby has been wanting to play more and more with Aurora, who seems uninterested. He simply won't leave her alone, and she gets upset, hissing at him and last night, she started the moaning again. We separated them last night.
Dobby is scheduled to get neutered next month, but he will, of course, still be kitten, and still want to play and act like a goof. Any suggestions on how to help Aurora adjust to him better, or keep him from pestering her?