Hey, I'm relatively new. I signed up for sites like this when I was still on the post-engagement high. Anyway, about this time last year, I found out that my husband of not even one year had been having "cyber affairs" I guess. He would go on dating sites, get women's numbers and talk/text with them and exchange photos. There were two in particular that REALLY bugged me: one was an old friend of his who knew he was married but still exchanged raunchy messages with, and another was a girl about 5 1/2 hours away who he met through a secret fb account he made. This girl was basically his girlfriend: they'd talk, call each other, send each other good morning/night texts and call each other babe/baby whatever. Anyway, I ended up giving him a second chance on some conditions, we got some counseling, and he begged forgiveness and such. However, I'm still not over it. It still hurts so bad that I get so pissed off at him that I don't want him to touch me. I don't know how to get past this. I think about it (like now) and I feel like crying...help?