I feel like I have no other place to turn to but here. I don't know how to take this in or let me rephrase it I know how I feel but I don't know if my feelings, thoughts, etc. are the right one. So are current leaving situation or since my husband and I got married was to live at his mom's house it's a pretty big house plenty of space and is also divorced, at work most of the time and she's going through some health issues so my Husband though our best bet was to live there so she wouldn't be alone and obviously it would help us out as well.
Recently, my husband found out from his brother that my mother jn-law is upset and several things that have been going on 1) the garage is electric and it stopped working so or some reason she doesn't know if its "our" fault or the obvious wear and tear of the garage (but she is still mad that its probably "Us"). 2) my sister stayed over a couple nights and she's upset that she stayed over, showered and washed some clothes at the house because she pays for the water. 3) she sees what bills we been getting and she obviously knows we have stuff to pay for & she's upset because of that and to make it clear she opened one of our bills up and paid for it because we weren't taking care of it ( I had already taken care of it and she had made a payment and mad that now their was all this mixup) you created it not us. 4) our dog leaving hair all over. There's more but this is the current issues.
I don't know how to feel about this anymore...I'm hurt and upset and I feel like I'm bottled up with all my emotions. I want to just leave but we can't I got laid off 6 months ago and haven't gotten a job since than. I don't know what to do I'm seriously driving my self insane with everyone. It might be my fault or is it? What makes me think otherwise is that her relationship with her other son's wife is bad as well she's constantly in their business and has said things to her and made comments that wouldn't be okay in my eyes. We are supposed to be family.
What do I do?