My husband and I have been together almost 10 years, married 2 years. When we first started dating our sex live was great (we were 18) but over the years it has started slowing. We may have sex twice a month now, sometimes less.
I'm not sure why but I'm not interested in sex at all. I've come up with a million excuses of why I think I'm like this. (worried about getting pregnant, too tired after work, not feeling good, it happens to all couples after a while) I feel like the main reason is because over these 10 years I have gained at least 60 pounds and I don't feel comforatble in my own body. I'm starting to work on my weight but I feel bad that my husband wants to have sex and is always telling me I'm beautiful. I want to be able to make him happy but I'm not sure what to about this. I just can't force myself to do it as often as he would like. Even worse most of our friends are just getting married in newer relationships so he is always comparing us to them. It seems like everyone knows that we don't have sex. And we are planning to try to get pregnant now in the next year so I kind of need to be able to feel good about having sex.
Does anyone else have this problem that can help?