I just got off the phone with J's aunt who I am very close with. I told her that we couldn't take a vacation this year because we are saving for a house. She said something like ok, you guys are seriously thinking about staying there. Ummm ya? And then she got all sad, depressed, grouchy. I get that you miss us, but come one. Isn't there any happiness for us? I explained that everyone I graduated with pretty much don't have a job in the field. She was like...what? there are no jobs in in MN? Again, I applied for 17 jobs in MN. Got none. Plus I Love my job. Then she started talking about us having kids and how we won't have family. Yes, I know. Thank you.
Sigh...this is hard. Its a no win win situation.
Thanks for letting me vent.