I have been married almost a year but been together a decade. We have dealt with trust issues before but things have been fine and trusting for a while. But in the back of my mind my guard is always up. And to me, in today's world it should be.
So my husband wants to go in to a form of nursing. I'm all for that considering his past career has only been cooking.
So now he's in school and has 3 main people he hangs out with. 1 guy and 1 SINGLE girl.
I went up to school one day to bring him his books and folders he forgot. They were on a break and outside. I know the 1 guy from mutual friends. He did not come up to say hi..... She did. Extended her hand introducing herself. Saying how he talks so much about me...etc. I was so thrown off guard and of course one of the days I wasnt wearing any make-up and looking my best.
After this, it dawned on me that they were better friends than the initial "ya, we all 3 sit together in class". Now, he even mentions her a bit more in conversation talking about what happened in school that day.
I am not too worried, but the more he talks about his new friend the more my mind starts messing with me. I tend to be a bit on the jealous side but not crazy jealous and I don't care if he has a friend.I guess what I am asking is when your husband makes friends at work or school with other females... how do I keep my composure and stay committed to trusting him and keep my sanity????
Any advice would help!!!
... I see myself stressing more and more about this lately.